What if we are working towards our goals and ignoring the determining factor of success? What if the way we formulated our plans was why we were locked out of achievement? Goals are not achieved only by effort and grit but by the intimacy of relationships. Goals are achieved when we close the intimacy gap with those we love and serve. If we don't take the time to clarify our intimacy gap, in most cases, we will spend our days in useless pursuits and failed goals.